Rainey Daze and Crazy Nights

Poetry, Paintings, and Ponderings: Through My Eyes

Different Doesn’t Mean Wrong August 12, 2013


Why is there so much hatred in the world for anyone or anything “different” from the norm? Do we really want a world filled with carbon copies of bland sameness? I think fear plays a role; many fear what they don’t understand. But it goes so much deeper than that. The old “Survival of the fittest” instinct kicks in, even in this day and time. For some reason, things that make us “different” are viewed as weaknesses. In reality, it is often those differences that make a person a survivor. These differences bring us, as humans, forward as a race. Without these wonderful differences and the unique qualities of people, we would not have the scientific genius of Einstein, the artistic genius of Van Gogh, or the mental genius of Aristotle.

I remain hopeful that the internet, yes, the great World Wide Web, will help erase the stigma of different. The web allows humans to connect in ways we never imagined. It is doubtful that I could ever afford to travel to Uganda and share ideas, but here, on the ‘net, I can do that with a few strokes of my fingers. I can get the opinion of  a sassy Colombian lady who lives in Canada, or check in on life in the United Kingdom. Do these online friends have different opinions than mine? Yes, sometimes they do. Do they have different experiences, heartaches, triumphs? Certainly. I learn so much from their thoughts and adventures! I see the uniqueness of each of them and I feel blessed that they share that uniqueness with me and the rest of the world. Perhaps, one day, we can learn to celebrate those qualities that make us each uniquely human.

 

 

4 Responses to “Different Doesn’t Mean Wrong”

  1. I have been waiting 40 years to find people who could accept my brand of uniqueness. It hasn’t happened yet. In fact, the very people who claim to care about me are the ones with the biggest problem with who I am because it’s far outside the norm and being linked to someone “weird” in a small town tarnishes them somehow. But I won’t change. They’re weak and spineless, not my problem.

  2. backonmyown Says:

    Love this post. As a foreign language teacher, my most common line to my students was “Different doesn’t make it weird.” Hopefully, some of them acquired enough maturity to believe me.


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