Rainey Daze and Crazy Nights

Poetry, Paintings, and Ponderings: Through My Eyes

What Blogging Means to Me July 13, 2012

I began my blog, Rainey Daze and Crazy Nights, in July of 2010. It started as a way for me to let off steam while dealing with my oldest daughter’s multiple diagnoses of bipolar, eating disorder, anxiety, OCD, and ADD. I wrote a whopping thirteen times that year, then only two times in 2011. At that time, I didn’t write enough to find my voice or my fellow bloggers. Then in January of this year, I began to write again. I felt like I needed to say so many things, and not just about my daughter. This time, writing meant much more and seemed so personal; I honestly don’t know how to explain it,  but words began to pour from me in poems, stories, and ramblings.  I had so much I needed to write….and it felt GREAT!

Blogging made me see that I, too am suffering with mental issues; I’ve always been so busy taking care of everyone else in my life I didn’t allow myself to see my own afflictions. After blogging, I could read back over what I had written. It made me take more notice of my ups and downs and realized I might need professional help. I saw my doctor and will soon see a specialist due to the encouragement of the blogging community.

Next came something so amazing, so astonishing, I still can’t believe it: other bloggers began to like my words and started following my blog! That is such an incredible gift. When I have a bad day and one of my blogging buddies responds with words of wisdom BECAUSE THEY HAVE BEEN THERE, it means the world to me. It also feels great when I have a good day and I can cheer up a blogging friend!

I am no one special. I’ve not done anything extraordinary in my life. I am just an America gal leading an American life. Yet I now have friends all over the globe, thanks to blogging. We are all just brothers and sisters living and growing in our little corners of the world. We all struggle, we all have victories, and we all need other humans with which to interact. Blogging strips away the outer shells we normally show the world and allows us to expose our inner selves. And  you know what? It feels good to share secrets from the depths of our hearts and to have it accepted by others. It feels damn good.

So this post is for you, my fellow bloggers. I hold a glass of wine (really, it is Pepsi, but we can pretend) up to you and say, “Cheers! Here’s to friendship and understanding!” Because it doesn’t really matter that we have never met, and probably never will. True friends are there when you need them. Thanks for being there for me.






13 Responses to “What Blogging Means to Me”

  1. S. Says:

    Aww!! You mean tons to all of us readers and we are blessed to have you as a reader!
    Oh, and Look! That is me second from the left in your photo at the end! 😛 (You’re the third person from the left, but I am not sure who the man is groping me on the right!)

    • rainey Says:

      You are a sweetie…but that CAN’T be me third from the left…I’m in the middle, surrounded by all of my lovely friends! 😀 ….and I don’t know who that is groping you; he just jumped in the picture! lol

  2. Thank you for stopping by my newbie blog 🙂 Nice to meet you! I will be back to explore 🙂

  3. i like the way you think and the way you write. thank you for following me. your words are so true. i, also, started out slow. just felt i had something that i wanted to say more than i could express on facebook or twitter. too limited in where i could go with my ideas. i’d start making a comment on fb and it would turn into the beginnings of a post. at the beginning, i am not absolutely sure i remember what led me to wordpress. have memory problems. but i stopped after about 6 mos.on my first blog site. i actually was writing 2 at a time. one for the mind and one for the emotions. i have since combined the two. it works out better that way. i think, also, my reasons for starting developed after i suddenly returned to writing my blog back on april 23rd this year pretty much full time. i wanted to be honest from the start withou holding back on what needed to be said. i will be back to check out more and to read future posts. it is grand to get to know people all over the world and to develop friendship. meeting in person is not necessary to have them grow. thanks for leading me to your site. jen

    • rainey Says:

      Jen, It is nice to meet you! Blogging is a wonderful way to meet so many nice and interesting people. I will enjoy reading your blog as well! Rainey

  4. I don’t know what I’d do without my blog and my fellow bloggers. So, cheers! 🙂

  5. what a beautiful written piece. Isn’t it lovely knowing that there are people – strangers, really, but strangers who care – reading & relating to what you’re going through? Kudos for sharing your story.

  6. rainey Says:

    Thank you! 🙂

  7. clownonfire Says:

    You’re awesome. Thank you.
    Le Out of Smart Ass Replies Clown

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